Sunday, 10 August 2014

Ignorance is bliss!!

The best way to live beautifully is to ignore the marks & scars and comply yourself to feel beautiful and look beautiful!

The Power lies in us.

I recollect the golden words by my mother from my childhood days..
As a kid i was always notorious and too mischievous to handle.
My teachers used to call me a tomboy!
Never behaved like a girl.. playfully running around, having the crankiest pranks, falling over my head, performing somersaults was all i loved!
And as expected, at the end of day, I was left with bruises and marks with pain of course!
My nights used to end with dressing with Dettol, Soframycin and Band aids covering all my cuts and wounds.
To get my mom’s attention I would often go up to her and cry for long lost wound with a complain its a pain to live with it.
 My mom, as smart she is, would only say one thing...
 " The more you look at your bruises and wounds, the more you would realize how painful they are!
 Ignore your wounds, The pain would soon start to Ignore you!. Soon you'll forget what made you cry, what gave that pain!"

Like an obedient kid, I used to follow.. n Yeahh ! It worked man! Few minutes later, I used to forget that I had fallen to get hurt!
Now as a grownup i have few marks of my childhood mischief but source of it and pain is nowhere in closet vision!

The same thumb rule I would like to apply for life today..
No wonder we have our own share of ups and downs,
No doubt we have something that pricks our raw nerve
No questions we have some moments we cringe about
But ..
 Ignorance, as it seems, is truly a bliss!

 Ignore the incidents that kill you inside, that won't let you grow and spread negativity all around!
 Smile and Learn new ways to lead a Beautiful Life with your scars and marks!
 Soon you would forget the pain , the source of discomfort and emerge gracefully with all your experiences!


Thursday, 7 August 2014

In my Mind.....

"  In my mind..
  Thoughts run a mile
  Thinking for quiet a while
  With my dreams so fragile
  Questions float
  My senses elope
  Fears erupt
  Making my Ambitions corrupt 
  Advice n advise
  With a lil choice
  Roar in loud voice
  Commanding to maintain a poise 
  But wanna take my time
  As the unclear thoughts still chime
  The rhythm of asinine
  Waiting for aid from divine!  "

Tuesday, 29 July 2014

Face Off!

Friend.
Somebody who shares with you.
Somebody who listens to you.
Somebody who annoys you.
Somebody who consoles you.
And Somebody who can bring a smile on your face.
 
World is a place to grow with different people around us. And the one who influences us the most are either our Best Friends or our Worst Enemies.
Last week was a week full of confrontations, confessions, confusions and lots of conversations with the Lost Old Good Friends.

For quite a while I was lost in my world of problems ; Family, Friends, Future, Career, Job, Friendships, Relationships ,... the list is endless.
Questions of  where am I leading to in my aimless direction wandered into my tiny brain! Disappointed with my helplessness for the situation i started feeling that I lead the worst life ever!

Regardless of what I wish to do, there were always ifs & buts hovering around all my aspirations. Comparing with what my peers showcased about their life , I always had a feeling that m not as lucky as others or mabbe not as determined as others..
People around me apparently had more happening life, apparently had a aim in life and some apparently had love of their life. I wished and prayed to grow for better.
Ultimately, I broke down!
Hands Up! I had to confront to my dearies that something is being missed. I had to Confess that I feel jealous. The air of confusion had blown my mind away. 
And Finally, Family and Friends had a Face Off with the insecure side of me.

I never wanted to sound like a cry-baby. Neither did I wish to sack up sympathy. All I wanted was a Direction to head ahead.
Surprisingly with such honest confrontation, the dogmatic family highly concerned with my security seem to understand my inquisitive behaviour to grow more , to know more.
And More Surprisingly, the elite peer group modestly confessed that they are no different from me. The problems i face are no different from what they have gone through or are going through.

Somehow this calmed me down. Suddenly i realize we all in our early twenty-ish something are sailing on the same boat. Its just that, to direct this boat you need to paddle smartly. Waves might just push you away but the fun lies there when you be a rebel to face what come may and head towards what you picture as a Better Life!

I didn't get a direction, yet I perceived that the decision lies with me!

The Face Off!  between my fears and my desires finally knocked out! Calming and yet keeping me at toes to choose for what i want!



What makes a woman Beautiful?

What makes a woman truly beautiful?

Its just a thought that ran through my mind.. zero-size figure, pretty face, spotfree skin, radiant smile or shiny silky hair... what is it that defines a beautiful woman!

Its the personality, the way she carries herself and the confidence she bestows! 

No matter how fat the lady is, No matter how wrecked her teeth are, no matter how short her height is.. If she has the courage to present herself in her own elegant way and being completely imperfectly perfect and still not be afraid of what the judgemental world thinks of her.. then i bet on it, nobody can deny that yeah! she is indeed beautiful!


Pretty face, fair tone, zero-size figure, spotfree skin and luscious hair can Define a Barbie Doll..
Who can be adored by a child,
Who can be played for a while..
But definately not loved for a Life!!



:)