Sarr jhukao, Kaam karo!

A very famous dialogue of an online series..  Sarr jhukao, Kaam karo!  The only way to circumvent all the bullshit world throws at us and to yearn our identity in no-nonsense way!  

There would be many around you trying to put you down,  destroy your esteem and mock at your mistakes!  Rude comments coming your way with a tag line  "Just Kidding" can be a normal phenomena!  But all you need to remember is you are in this situation for a reason,  either learn something or teach something!

The times we are hit by a truthful assault,  we need to make sure we churn the positive learning from it to be a better person next time! Make this learning from your sufferings your weapon to fight for a peaceful life ahead!

When you face the wrath of unnecessary comments or silly baseless judgments,  do not let it spoil your inner peace and disturb you forever!
Smack them by your attitude and let them repent what they said you can't do!

Overthinking and over analysing the worst part of your experience will not only  put your growth at standstill.  It will also drive away all the opportunities for the better future. Load mat le..  Go ahead and get going!

Haters gonna hate you, Lovers gonna care for you! You ought to be yourself else this world will eat you like a small morsel! 

Have the right attitude and nobody can dare to stop you from reaching the high altitudes!

What's Next???

The anticipation of future has always excited the losers. People dream a lot can be achieved and mesmerized in Future without realizing that the seeds of goodness have to be sowed in present. Procrastination is one of the side effects of such thinking.

We wait for the right time to do right things but in reality start doing right things now,  time will mend it's way to be right for you.

But,  today the question is,  do people with all kinds of wrong intentions ever think about the impact their wrong doings can have on them and others?
Do they even realize the repercussions  of their thoughtless acts to harm anyone?

There are lot of TV series we see these days.  Aired on TV only to show how polluted our social air is!
Criminals,  cheaters and all kinds of evil minded people strive hard to make the life of a common man hell,  just only to realize that the end of all evil things lead you nowhere. It's scary to even think of being one of the victims.  Isn't there anything we can do to make this world a better place to live?

To answer this,  words of great Mahatma Gandhi echoes in my mind : BE THE CHANGE YOU WANT TO SEE.

The fearful negativity that surrounds our mind can only be trashed by replacing the thoughts of positive things.  Think of all the happiness world has given you, in form of family, friends, well wishers.  Think of all good things you did in day. It could be as small as making someone smile by your sweet words.

Count of your blessings. And let the fear of negative future take a back seat.
Sieze the day. Carpe diem.
Live to the fullest.
Don't overthink about your future and be the loser.  Change your outlook and be the Winner the world would look up at. 

HAPPY YOU WILL LEAD TO HAPPY ALL.

Welcome to real world, IT SUCKS!

Have you ever boasted on something that you achieved in past but in true sense has no meaning in present?
It must have been your biggest achievement , the win over your own fears, the most beautiful experience you cherish... but.. now.. time has changed, people have changed and most importantly, you have changed!

Change is permanent, they say. But few things are never meant to be changed.
Why do people change the good in them? Why do some choose to become more fearful of good things they did in past 'coz they were never recognized?

Your past tells a lot about you.. but your present defines you! You are what you are NOW not what you had been in your past.
When the harsh reality strikes on your face , you realize how you were and how you are right now.
You might be good, kind , considerate and a generous person in your old days but when you realize how people misuse your saintly nature.. you become the devil you fear! The new you or rather the changed, manipulated you now doesn't believe in being nice, kind or considerate to anyone! And all you say to yourself is "Welcome to real world, IT SUCKS!"
It might have come easy for you to learn the new things. Being rude, ruthless and careless about this world is your new mantra!

But life isn't that bad, good things still come to you. They apparently still exists. The positivity you had in your past has no meaning when the negativity of your present is all around you! Change is good, but don't let the change make you do mistakes that you would keep regretting all your life. Judgement and genuine perseverance will allow you to make wise decisions. Don't rely on what happened in past, coz it doesn't exist anymore, it might come up again, but be prepared for the worst while hoping for the best.

Personally, I have made few such grave mistakes by judging my present based on my past. And of course reacting the way I know I should not have. Sincerely feel sorry for that.. mabbe i can't repair the damage done.. but at least make sure it doesn't happen again.

Its better to be quiet and wait for the cards of your future open on their own rather than making a deal based on what you lost or earned before!

Ignorance is bliss!!

The best way to live beautifully is to ignore the marks & scars and comply yourself to feel beautiful and look beautiful!

The Power lies in us.

I recollect the golden words by my mother from my childhood days..

As a kid i was always notorious and too mischievous to handle.

My teachers used to call me a tomboy!

Never behaved like a girl.. playfully running around, having the crankiest pranks, falling over my head, performing somersaults was all i loved!

And as expected, at the end of day, I was left with bruises and marks with pain of course!

My nights used to end with dressing with Dettol, Soframycin and Band aids covering all my cuts and wounds.

To get my mom’s attention I would often go up to her and cry for long lost wound with a complain its a pain to live with it.

 My mom, as smart she is, would only say one thing...

 " The more you look at your bruises and wounds, the more you would realize how painful they are!

 Ignore your wounds, The pain would soon start to Ignore you!. Soon you'll forget what made you cry, what gave that pain!"

Like an obedient kid, I used to follow.. n Yeahh ! It worked man! Few minutes later, I used to forget that I had fallen to get hurt!

Now as a grownup i have few marks of my childhood mischief but source of it and pain is nowhere in closet vision!

The same thumb rule I would like to apply for life today..

No wonder we have our own share of ups and downs,

No doubt we have something that pricks our raw nerve

No questions we have some moments we cringe about

But ..

 Ignorance, as it seems, is truly a bliss!

 Ignore the incidents that kill you inside, that won't let you grow and spread negativity all around!

 Smile and Learn new ways to lead a Beautiful Life with your scars and marks!

 Soon you would forget the pain , the source of discomfort and emerge gracefully with all your experiences!

In my Mind.....

"  In my mind..
  Thoughts run a mile
  Thinking for quiet a while
  With my dreams so fragile

  Questions float
  My senses elope
  Fears erupt
  Making my Ambitions corrupt 

  Advice n advise
  With a lil choice
  Roar in loud voice
  Commanding to maintain a poise 

  But wanna take my time
  As the unclear thoughts still chime
  The rhythm of asinine
  Waiting for aid from divine!  "

Face Off!

Friend.
Somebody who shares with you.
Somebody who listens to you.
Somebody who annoys you.
Somebody who consoles you.
And Somebody who can bring a smile on your face. 

World is a place to grow with different people around us. And the one who influences us the most are either our Best Friends or our Worst Enemies.

Last week was a week full of confrontations, confessions, confusions and lots of conversations with the Lost Old Good Friends.

For quite a while I was lost in my world of problems ; Family, Friends, Future, Career, Job, Friendships, Relationships ,... the list is endless.

Questions of  where am I leading to in my aimless direction wandered into my tiny brain! Disappointed with my helplessness for the situation i started feeling that I lead the worst life ever!

Regardless of what I wish to do, there were always ifs & buts hovering around all my aspirations. Comparing with what my peers showcased about their life , I always had a feeling that m not as lucky as others or mabbe not as determined as others..

People around me apparently had more happening life, apparently had a aim in life and some apparently had love of their life. I wished and prayed to grow for better.

Ultimately, I broke down!

Hands Up! I had to confront to my dearies that something is being missed. I had to Confess that I feel jealous. The air of confusion had blown my mind away. 

And Finally, Family and Friends had a Face Off with the insecure side of me.

I never wanted to sound like a cry-baby. Neither did I wish to sack up sympathy. All I wanted was a Direction to head ahead.

Surprisingly with such honest confrontation, the dogmatic family highly concerned with my security seem to understand my inquisitive behaviour to grow more , to know more.

And More Surprisingly, the elite peer group modestly confessed that they are no different from me. The problems i face are no different from what they have gone through or are going through.

Somehow this calmed me down. Suddenly i realize we all in our early twenty-ish something are sailing on the same boat. Its just that, to direct this boat you need to paddle smartly. Waves might just push you away but the fun lies there when you be a rebel to face what come may and head towards what you picture as a Better Life!

I didn't get a direction, yet I perceived that the decision lies with me!

The Face Off!  between my fears and my desires finally knocked out! Calming and yet keeping me at toes to choose for what i want!

What makes a woman Beautiful?

What makes a woman truly beautiful?

Its just a thought that ran through my mind.. zero-size figure, pretty face, spotfree skin, radiant smile or shiny silky hair... what is it that defines a beautiful woman!

Its the personality, the way she carries herself and the confidence she bestows! 

No matter how fat the lady is, No matter how wrecked her teeth are, no matter how short her height is.. If she has the courage to present herself in her own elegant way and being completely imperfectly perfect and still not be afraid of what the judgemental world thinks of her.. then i bet on it, nobody can deny that yeah! she is indeed beautiful!

Pretty face, fair tone, zero-size figure, spotfree skin and luscious hair can Define a Barbie Doll..

Who can be adored by a child,

Who can be played for a while..

But definately not loved for a Life!!

:)